Sunday, July 17, 2011

What problems you’d run into if you have ten kids?




Population today is reaching about a hundred billion and it is increasing with such a percentage every year. Imagine what do we have in the next generation, though there are others who die but there are lot of babies born in an hour. Think about that statistic if you are contributing to the growing population and if you are concerned to your future generation.

A family should raise their children best according to the family plan. It allows a couple or family to use and limit such things to enable and provide them healthy living. But what about those who have big families, those who have five or more kids, these is primarily contributed to the growing population. And much worse this kind of family, or a big family, will sure have a lot of problems if the parents are not that profitable. Many problems will come, and more problems for those who have ten kids. I think it will be so miserable but their goes a saying “The more, the merrier”, but what are those problems you’ll be face up if you have ten kids?

Money. This is probably the worst problem for a parent to face up if he/she has ten kids. How much food will I feed my children? How much will cost their clothes? How much will their tuitions cost? How much is our daily needs in total? These are just questions you may ask to yourself if you have ten kids. There is no problem if you have lots of money even if you have fifteen kids but money is a major problem for those who can’t sustain ten kids at home. What about the other needs for them, except from clothes, food and shelter of course there are other major problems that still hanged and unexpected like what if they are all got sick? So much tense and stress for a parent who has ten kids. The saying “The more, the merrier” can mean to other things but not to have many kids to rise.
Not enough food. The second one in my list is that the food which is the basic needs for every human being. Of course you must feed your ten children in order to grow but the case is that while your ten kids growing the expense for them will also grow. Where will you find food for them? Basically, you can have foods for them if you have some source from the farm or you have money to buy them some food to eat. Sometimes you have the food but it cannot satisfy them. For instance, your average son/daughter can eat an average bread for meal, but in this case you have ten kids so you have to buy ten foods and sometimes you have only five. Five breads for ten kids and for sure will not satisfy them. So from that, your kids will surely want some more and more which you have to explain them your situation.

Noise. This may be the reason why a parent doesn’t want to have the responsibility to take care of their kids. A kid may do play a lot of things and go mess with your house but surely not that with noise. Two kids may irritate your ears if they fight for a toy and get some loud cries from each other. Three may become worst if not disciplined. Four kids will be the same as a two kids that is not disciplined in manners. Imagine the noise if you have ten kids around your house. Each of them has their own monkey business. One may play alone, the others are fighting with each other, the others are crying, and others are playing with loud laughs. So if you wanted to raise ten kids, make sure you practice yourself in a noise surrounding.

Finding a babysitter, no room and no time. These things are another problem for a parent who has ten kids. Finding a babysitter to help you take care of the kids will be a problem if you have a fulltime schedule at work. Somehow, you can’t find someone who can trust to stay inside your house and the one who can trust to take care of your kids. We know that there are lot of cases now about child abuse so you are lucky if you found someone that near perfect for a babysitter. Room for ten kids will be a problem if you just have intended to have only two or three kids but became ten. You will sure be forced to move to a bigger house and many rooms that can occupy all ten kids. As I said recently, if you have a fulltime schedule, you sure you have no time for your ten kids. Of course at their age they will not understand either your situation. You must manage your time for them and for your work.


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