What do you find out about a person right away on an online dating site, but much later if you meet in real life?

Nowadays, we are aware of what we call online dating. Online dating is one of the most effective ways to find partners since technology is now involve in every activity of a person especially in communication. If we want to find some partners, we always choose the easiest way to attain what we want. We used cellphones to find partners through texting. We used our TVs to find partners in live chat channels and still with the use of cellphones. We used our telephones to find partners through voice calls. We used our radios to find partners through advertising with the help also of cellphones and telephones. Some other terms of media are in demand today just to make relationship between two anonymous persons like newspapers, magazines, etc.

But today, with the rich technology living with us, online dating can be done through online dating site or other social networking sites through the use of internet and the web in our computers. Today, there are lot of stories about relationship which became successful through online dating. That is why others are still wanted to try their luck in this type of game to find partners. You may risk yourself if you are looking for dates or partners through online dating sites because there are lot of cases also about scams and crimes which involves online dating. But what do you find out about a person you found in an online dating site but much later if you 

meet in real life?

Age. Most of us, in the desire to find dates and partners, we intend to change our current status, especially our age. I don’t remember I had experience about this were I change my age younger than my original age in one of my profile used in an online dating site. Some people sometimes don’t look at the age gap between them and their partners now. There are cases that a boy aged 28 years had his partner 17 years of age and it is inevitable because we know what love can do to us, very strong addiction. People in an online dating site might change his/her age because he/she doesn’t have any matched person matching his/her aged that is why they change to matched the other persons whom they like to date to. Sometimes people change their age just to attract others and make another agenda or business, just like doing the same job but simultaneously to many customers.

Weight. This might be another thing when you find it out in a person whom you met from an online dating site. Sometimes when we are looking for dates or partners especially in an online dating site, we look first to his/her face pictures were we judge them from their beauty. In some other cases, we uses camera-to-camera video calls or video chat in able to check each other’s looks. But sometimes, still there are still persons who are bright. When these persons invited to a private camera-to-camera video call, they only show their beautiful faces which attracts us most. And when the deal comes up to meet in person, you will notice first that their faces are only bluffs. I know a lot of stories from my friends about these things. They look for a date in an online dating site and when decided to meet in person they are disappointed at what they saw because all about the profile are bluff.

Marital Status. When we are looking for some dates, sometimes we change are status just to find another partner or date. When a man is married by his woman but their marriage is not working, he might go look out for another partner or date secretly or privately or vulgar or public. That’s why there are cases like this that a person might change his marital status just to find another partner or date. When this person enters an online dating site, he/she may go to his/her profile to change immediately his/her marital status to “single”. To attract another partner or date, first you should be available at your status, not taken by anything or anyone. Sometimes there are persons just change their marital status from being “married” to “single” but the truth is that they are married and do have kids.

What are things you want to know when you run to a friend you haven’t seen in years?

No man is an island. We all know that, that is why we all have as we called them friends, or can be consider being a friend. Our friends may vary from us according to their attitudes, some of them are true and some are not. But of course we do have a true friend, lucky if you have them many. But life sometimes is playful to us that it takes away some of our friends from us. That was the sad part of it, leaving your true friend but the memories are still there in our heart and mind.

When you leave your friends in a very long time with some personal or social reasons, years past them out limiting are headlines about them. And when we meet them again, we have a lot of questions to ask to each other, we have a lot of plans in the future together and we hope he/she will not leave you as friend. But what actually are the things you want to know to your friend when you run to them without seeing each other in years?

Married?. This question may be the first thing you want to know after years of years that you’d be longing to your friend. “Are you married?”, will be the first topic in the first hour of conversation with your friend. This may be the question for those friends who have been away from each other and not seeing each other from 10 years. This may happen to your friend after graduating in your school, and he/she have to move for another place for better education or something. But after year of ten or fifteen, you might ask them if they already married. Sometimes if what have done to you is what you ask also to your friend, like if you are married or planning to be married, you might ask your friend if he/she also are married or have a plan to get married.

How are you?. Most of our conversation with our friends that we haven’t seen for weeks, months or years, starts from this question. “How are you?” is the first phrase around the conversation and then the next topic depends upon you two. Even if the time would be short, and you just met each other passing by but with a hurry, you may say a little bit “Hi” or “Hello” to each other and here comes ‘HAY’ (stands for How Are You). This is a good start also for a conversation, checking each other’s status, to lengthen the conversation and make some good relation and gestures with each other.

Your name again?. This may be the most embarrassing question you may ask to a friend you haven’t seen in a decade. A decade is ten years equivalent and ten years is very long enough to forget some you may call ‘friend’. Actually if you have a high memory about things, you can remember some moments with your friends even after ten years. “Your name again?”, is a question you might ask when you didn’t get your old friend’s look. You know things can change physically to us after ten years, and that may be the reason you may not remember your friend’s name because what you knew to him/her before has changed. Sometimes we are surprised about that, you know when your old friend is just like a pig before, and now he/she looks like a sexy model.

Have kids?. This question is like a pre-requisite of the question “Married?”. Of course when you ask your friend that you haven’t seen in year if he/she got married, and then he/she answers yes, you probably ask the next question “Have kids?”. You might ask this thing to your friend in some reason like when you know sometimes or you have an instinct that this friend of yours might have a kid. But sometimes what we don’t expect to our friends that may happen to them has the bigger chance and probability to happen to them, in an unexpected time and place. That is why sometimes in our gestures, we ask our friend that we haven’t seen in years if they have kids.

What things might a teenage boy might hide from his parents?

We all know that giving up your childhood and letting yourself in to adolescence is a part of growing up. Things are changing from ourselves, not just physically but all other aspects of a person going to be a teen. In teenage gap, teenagers are active and curios when it comes to many things. They changed attitude, choose things from their own decisions and click to many exciting things. They learn more because they are curios and there mind are more active to absorb things and activities and they knew how to apply it in real lives.

In case of a boy, who comes along in a teenage gap, he surely lot of new things learned from his friends. I experienced those things when I was in the starting line and I do things secretly just as a normal teenage boy. You know, when you are being a teenager, that you can’t do such things if you can’t hide it. You hide things because they are bad, they are not acceptable to anyone but your friends, but that was just the case or consequences around being a teenager. But what does a teenage boy might hide from his parents? I list down some things though there are some and such things that can’t be mention either.

Drugs. This may be the dangerous and unacceptable thing to any parent if their son is taking drugs and that will be a disaster between parents and the teenage boy. Generally, drugs have different effect to anyone, to our body and for sure it will not benefit us. What will be the effect of it for a teenage boy? There are only two answers: a short time pleasure or a lifetime disorder. A teenage boy who is taking drugs will surely hide those things from his parents because he doesn’t want to go to rehab. Sometimes with lack of self-respect and discipline, a teenage boy might help his problems through a drug and when he got the answers from them, it will be a bad habit. Parents should also provide good guidance to their sons and take out things that might affect their sons and end up in a prison.

Girlfriend. This may be the top of the list when it comes to the title. Some teenage boys are shy to let their parents know about the things may happen to them. Especially when it comes to a teenage boy love life, commonly they hide things and don’t tell things about their crushes or girlfriend to their parents. When I was in high school, I have my first girlfriend but I didn’t tell my mom about that. But when the relationship grows, the more gossips came to my mom. Though, I knew to myself that my mom knows about my girlfriend I’m still shy about it. But after that relationship, I now told my mom about the next relations I got that time. Sure things happens to other teenage boy of course, I experienced it that is why I knew what other teenage boys felt.

Dirty Magazines/DVDs. This may be another dirty thing from a teenage boy. Practically, knowing sex is a part of growing up that is why their still the undying debate about sex education. A teenage boy might be that aggressive when it comes to curiosity. So things that aren’t made for them may be taken by them also. That is why they will know a lot of things that other people do, especially those unusual things that aren’t for them. Actually it is more influential for a teenage boy to mimic something when it comes to another same teenage boy rather than the real adult out there. Dirty magazines or DVDs may come from their co-teenage boys also where they choose to begin bad attitudes because of lack of support and guidance from their parents.

Signs of falling in love

Can you ever imagine how you start or begin fell in love with someone? I am sure that you didn’t know but the experienced how it goes there is still the same. People have its own different feelings for someone when they are starting to fall in love that is why you can’t say that you know that that someone is falling in love with anyone. Here I list some of “S” things that can be a sign that you might falling in love with someone.

He/She stares. You know already when you are staring at someone but differently when you are staring at someone you like or love. When he/she glance at you, you feel like he/she stares at you for a long time. It’s just like your dream boy/girl has been caught glued his/her eyes at you. Though you knew that it was a glance, you can feel it to yourself that he/she stares at you for a time. It sometimes happen when you almost thinking and hoping that he/she would glance at you and have a little eye contact for a moment.

He/She stays. When staying at a corner waiting for someone, there is some time that your crush or someone you like or love happens to walk in front of you. You knew it even if you are doing something because you knew what he/she smells, what he/she wears etc. When he/she walk in front of you, it doesn’t feel like a flash because you may feel stunned and might see in your head that he/she stays and standing still in front of you though he/she already passed you out. You know, his/her image remains in your head and once forgot you take a look back and look for him/her that he/she actually passed you out.

He/She sings. We know that a conversation with someone we have a crush on or someone we like or love is just like forever dating him/her face to face. You can hear his/her voice playing again and again in your head. When he/she just talk to you, you feel like he/she sings love lyrics to you and it played on your head repeatedly. Sometimes when he/she is talking to you, you can hear on your head some melodies and his/her voice is rhymed and connected to the melody you hear.

He/She says. This is the best thing you can feel for someone you like or live or someone you have a crush on. When he/she smiles at you, it’s just like a picture perfect for you, and even if he/she is just smiling at you, you can hear that he/she says something like “I love you” or “I like you” which is the best if happened in reality. But our mind sometimes drives us really crazy when we fell in love for someone that we think any impossible things that we could imagine of.

He/She stops. Just like when he/she walks in front of you and then the feeling of she stays still or he/she stops and remain standing in front of you, this time when he/she sits beside you or near you. When he/she just sit beside you and suddenly leave, you feel like he/she stops and stayed up beside you but in your imagination he/she was closer to you. Sometimes it is one of our happiness that someone we love or like or someone we have crush on will stay or just sit to our side or near us for a moment. It will be a feeling of flying or floating in the clouds.

He/She sparks. This may be the crazy and unbelievable among all signs. When you see him/her with his near-perfect face and with his/her body, sometimes it comes along to your imaginations that he is sparkling with lights like diamonds. You think that he/she is so precious that he/she even shines like a star when you are looking at him/her. It can drive you with some drop-jaw and an amazed smile.

Sometimes we have our own way of imagination when we are starting to fall in love. But basically, we are just thinking or getting over him/her always that is why the love and its spell drives us crazy and that is true. People have their own sweet experiences when they start to fell in love with someone.