Friday, September 2, 2011

What do you find out about a person right away on an online dating site, but much later if you meet in real life?


Nowadays, we are aware of what we call online dating. Online dating is one of the most effective ways to find partners since technology is now involve in every activity of a person especially in communication. If we want to find some partners, we always choose the easiest way to attain what we want. We used cellphones to find partners through texting. We used our TVs to find partners in live chat channels and still with the use of cellphones. We used our telephones to find partners through voice calls. We used our radios to find partners through advertising with the help also of cellphones and telephones. Some other terms of media are in demand today just to make relationship between two anonymous persons like newspapers, magazines, etc.

But today, with the rich technology living with us, online dating can be done through online dating site or other social networking sites through the use of internet and the web in our computers. Today, there are lot of stories about relationship which became successful through online dating. That is why others are still wanted to try their luck in this type of game to find partners. You may risk yourself if you are looking for dates or partners through online dating sites because there are lot of cases also about scams and crimes which involves online dating. But what do you find out about a person you found in an online dating site but much later if you 
meet in real life?

Age. Most of us, in the desire to find dates and partners, we intend to change our current status, especially our age. I don’t remember I had experience about this were I change my age younger than my original age in one of my profile used in an online dating site. Some people sometimes don’t look at the age gap between them and their partners now. There are cases that a boy aged 28 years had his partner 17 years of age and it is inevitable because we know what love can do to us, very strong addiction. People in an online dating site might change his/her age because he/she doesn’t have any matched person matching his/her aged that is why they change to matched the other persons whom they like to date to. Sometimes people change their age just to attract others and make another agenda or business, just like doing the same job but simultaneously to many customers.

Weight. This might be another thing when you find it out in a person whom you met from an online dating site. Sometimes when we are looking for dates or partners especially in an online dating site, we look first to his/her face pictures were we judge them from their beauty. In some other cases, we uses camera-to-camera video calls or video chat in able to check each other’s looks. But sometimes, still there are still persons who are bright. When these persons invited to a private camera-to-camera video call, they only show their beautiful faces which attracts us most. And when the deal comes up to meet in person, you will notice first that their faces are only bluffs. I know a lot of stories from my friends about these things. They look for a date in an online dating site and when decided to meet in person they are disappointed at what they saw because all about the profile are bluff.

Marital Status. When we are looking for some dates, sometimes we change are status just to find another partner or date. When a man is married by his woman but their marriage is not working, he might go look out for another partner or date secretly or privately or vulgar or public. That’s why there are cases like this that a person might change his marital status just to find another partner or date. When this person enters an online dating site, he/she may go to his/her profile to change immediately his/her marital status to “single”. To attract another partner or date, first you should be available at your status, not taken by anything or anyone. Sometimes there are persons just change their marital status from being “married” to “single” but the truth is that they are married and do have kids.


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