Which traits, commonly associated with a teenager, can also be found in a bad roommate?

We have many reasons to ourselves why we want to live away from our home. Teenagers in many places leave their homes away in able for them to study in a nice and good school which is far away from their home. Sometimes people leave because of the work and opportunity. In this case they have to find something they can live while studying and while working far away from home. Most likely, there are two possible ways how they can live while studying away: these persons live in their relatives’ that is near the school or work place and these persons rent some room in apartments, dormitory, etc.

In many cases, these people chose to leave alone so they find some room to rent. They could find a nice place but it depends on how they can afford it. When one of these persons has the problem financially, he/she could occupy a bed space in a room, but unluckily, together with other persons in the same room, which is likely in a jail. In some cases, it is better to be alone than to have roommates which is likely to be your worst nightmare at all. But what are the traits, sometimes associated with teenagers that you can find in a bad roommate?

Messy. Honestly, teenagers, especially boys are the one who makes more mess than girls. Notice that in some areas like dormitory and apartment, which is exclusively for boys, they are sometimes messy in their room together with the others. I know there are certain that other boys have this trait of being messy but not all boys do have this trait. When a person with this trait lives together with a non-messy person in one room, there will be a total war. Messy people doesn’t know what the word clean means so they mess around the room and sometimes accidentally mess the whole room together. But sometimes it is impossible to overcome this trait if you have one non-messy person in one room and two messy persons together. But it depends on the discipline in each person’s how will they overcome this trait.

Lazy. Aside from the trait of being messy, it is associated with the trait of being lazy. Laziness always comes first among the list of bad traits of a roommate. He/she is lazy when he doesn’t clean his/her own things, he/she doesn’t wash his/her clothes, he/she doesn’t work on time, and probably he/she always wake up late at the morning. I actually don’t like those persons who always wake up late at the morning because as you wake up late you can’t work your to-do things at the right time. If you don’t have the discipline on yourself laziness will comes next for sure. This trait is really disgusting for your roommate especially if their laziness is in high, that they couldn’t even do a thing. They don’t have any care about things around them. If they want to eat, they just eat and leave the leftovers. But sometimes it is better to have a roommate with not that lazy because you know to yourself that they could do some things properly and they can manage their time in some proper ways.

Loud. Well this is the most irritating trait your roommate could ever have. If you notice that your roommate is loud and talkative, just fix you things and find another room. It will be a terrible noise for sure that you can’t do things around because of his/her noise. He/she may have a loud mouth or he/she does such things that make noise like playing irritating instruments and loud music and songs. He/she sometimes doesn’t have a care about who else is around the room. They just want to be loud for themselves which is being in another trait, selfish. They will be sure a disaster for you and a very big destructive thing for you. In worst cases, you might be involved in some trouble because of the noise of your loud roommate. But sometimes, we can’t help ourselves for that if we have to live in the room together with your loud roommate. 

What things might a teenage boy might hide from his parents?

We all know that giving up your childhood and letting yourself in to adolescence is a part of growing up. Things are changing from ourselves, not just physically but all other aspects of a person going to be a teen. In teenage gap, teenagers are active and curios when it comes to many things. They changed attitude, choose things from their own decisions and click to many exciting things. They learn more because they are curios and there mind are more active to absorb things and activities and they knew how to apply it in real lives.

In case of a boy, who comes along in a teenage gap, he surely lot of new things learned from his friends. I experienced those things when I was in the starting line and I do things secretly just as a normal teenage boy. You know, when you are being a teenager, that you can’t do such things if you can’t hide it. You hide things because they are bad, they are not acceptable to anyone but your friends, but that was just the case or consequences around being a teenager. But what does a teenage boy might hide from his parents? I list down some things though there are some and such things that can’t be mention either.

Drugs. This may be the dangerous and unacceptable thing to any parent if their son is taking drugs and that will be a disaster between parents and the teenage boy. Generally, drugs have different effect to anyone, to our body and for sure it will not benefit us. What will be the effect of it for a teenage boy? There are only two answers: a short time pleasure or a lifetime disorder. A teenage boy who is taking drugs will surely hide those things from his parents because he doesn’t want to go to rehab. Sometimes with lack of self-respect and discipline, a teenage boy might help his problems through a drug and when he got the answers from them, it will be a bad habit. Parents should also provide good guidance to their sons and take out things that might affect their sons and end up in a prison.

Girlfriend. This may be the top of the list when it comes to the title. Some teenage boys are shy to let their parents know about the things may happen to them. Especially when it comes to a teenage boy love life, commonly they hide things and don’t tell things about their crushes or girlfriend to their parents. When I was in high school, I have my first girlfriend but I didn’t tell my mom about that. But when the relationship grows, the more gossips came to my mom. Though, I knew to myself that my mom knows about my girlfriend I’m still shy about it. But after that relationship, I now told my mom about the next relations I got that time. Sure things happens to other teenage boy of course, I experienced it that is why I knew what other teenage boys felt.

Dirty Magazines/DVDs. This may be another dirty thing from a teenage boy. Practically, knowing sex is a part of growing up that is why their still the undying debate about sex education. A teenage boy might be that aggressive when it comes to curiosity. So things that aren’t made for them may be taken by them also. That is why they will know a lot of things that other people do, especially those unusual things that aren’t for them. Actually it is more influential for a teenage boy to mimic something when it comes to another same teenage boy rather than the real adult out there. Dirty magazines or DVDs may come from their co-teenage boys also where they choose to begin bad attitudes because of lack of support and guidance from their parents.